So funny story really.
Last week, I attempted to pickup my boyfriends kid and I was waiting outside her mom's house. At some point her mom got the mail and saw me. Now, you have to understand, this woman hates me and while hate might sound like a strong word, I'm fairly sure it's accurate. So I texted the kids to warned them that she saw me because typically she is rather verbal in her dislike of me to them the most and I rather have people prepared for stupidity if I can swing it.
Anyways! It seems she also texted my boyfriend about it. Because in her text she said I was a "home wrecker" and honestly that is the funniest shit ever! Because - for the back story - not only did SHE ASK FOR THE DIVORCE - SHE HAD MOVED OUT AND INTO ANOTHER GUYS HOUSE BEFORE I EVEN KNEW MY NOW BOYFRIEND EXISTED!!!!! ahahahahahahahahahahaha
I was separated for my then husband, my boyfriend was separated from his then wife. We meet online - after we had both had separated and each of our respective divorce processes started.
So. No - I am not a home wrecker.
I've been divorced now for just over 7 years, with Mike for 8. Maryland requires a year separation prior to officially being divorced. Mike was divorced before I was.
She's been like this (and honestly she's a lot better than before) for 8 FUCKING YEARS!!
At some point, a person would understand that things are not going to work out with your EX, especially after you've asked for and received a divorce. I'm not sorry that me and Mike are happy and have a great relationship. I'm not sorry that we found each other when we did. I'm pretty damn lucky and happy that we did! But his Ex - she's never quite gotten over it. It seems she has some issues to still figure out and I really hope she does. No one deserves to be unhappy in their life, especially after a divorce for people who did not work out.
Oh, she also called me a tramp but that's just her being uncouth.
